Kua pāngia koe?

Mēnā i pā mai tētahi āhuatanga whakaito ki a koe, kei te hiahia rānei koe ki te āwhina i tētahi atu i pēneitia ai, he maha ngā kōwhiringa tautoko. Ko te mea nui kei te haumaru koe, ā, e mārama ana koe ehara nōu te hē, ka mutu ka pā noa mai tēnei ki te tangata.

Ka pātai te tangata, ‘He aha i kore ai koe i kōrero?'. Ehara i te mea māmā. E hia ngā wā i kōrero ahau ki ahau anō i roto i tōku hinengaro. He maha ngā kōrerorero i roto i tōku hinengaro ki te kimi i ngā kupu.

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I te nuinga o te wā kei te mōhio te pārurenga-mōrehu ki te nanakia, ā, kāore pea he whakarekereke. Ka pā mai i roto i tētahi hononga, hononga mārena rānei. Pā mai ai te koeretanga ki ngā momo tāngata katoa ahakoa taipakeke, ira tangata, tūnga, ahurea, pūmanawa, hōkakatanga hoki.

Ko ētahi mahi koeretanga ko te:

  • raweke pokanoa, pērā i te kihi 
  • wero i te tara, koitō, waha rānei.
  • whakahau i te tangata ki te mātaki, te mahi rānei i te karihika.
  • te whakahau i a koe kia pā ki a ia. 
  • te whakahau i te tangata ki te mahi hōkaka, pērā i te raweke i a koe anō.
  • taitōkai ā-atahanga
    Te tuari ihirangi taupiri mō te tangata engari kāore ia i whakaae (ahakoa i whakaaetia te mahinga o ngā ihirangi).
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Te whakaae atu:
E whakaae ana te tangata ki te mahi ai mēnā kei te āta mahia e ia, kei te rata, kei te whakaatu i runga i te mōhio me te kore e pēhia. I Aotearoa, 16 tau te taipakeke o te whakaetanga.

Ētahi rerekētanga mō te whakaaetanga
Ka tuku whakaaetanga ki te mahi i tētahi mea. Ehara i te mea me whakahua 'kāo' te tangata, me whawhai rānei hei whakaatu kāore ia i te whakaae atu.
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  • ehara i te mea me kaha tō whakahua 'kāo', te whawhai atu rānei hei whakaatu i tō whakahē - he rerekē te aupēhi ki te mahi tahi
  • Mēnā kāore koe i kaha ki te whakahē ahakoa pēhea, kāore koe i whakaae atu - arā, pēnei i te mea i te mōhio koe, i warea e te whakapoauau, i te haurangi rānei
  • mēnā i whakaae koe kia rawekehia koe nā te ringa tū ki a koe, he whakatumatuma, he mataku rānei (ki a koe, tō whānau/hoa rānei), ehara tērā i te whakaae atu
  • mēnā i whakaae koe i te tuatahi engari ka huri ō whakaaro - kei a koe te mana ki te whakahē
  • mēnā he kaha ake te hiahia ai o te tangata i tāu i whakaae ai
  • mēnā i pōhēhē koe he tangata kē atu ia
  • mēnā e pāngia ana koe e tētahi mate hinengaro, wairangi, tinana rānei, ā, kāore e taea e koe te whakahē, te aukati rānei.

E rua ngā ataata e whakamārama ana i te āhua o te whakaaetanga. Tuatahi, anei tētahi whakamāramatanga i te whakaaetanga, he pēhea te tuku, he pēhea te tango:

Whai muri mai ko tētahi tino ataata e tuku tohutohu ana mō te whakaaetanga, mā te whakamahi i tētahi "kapu tī" hei whakatauritenga whaitake. 

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